Showing posts with label overcoming tragedy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label overcoming tragedy. Show all posts

Friday, January 9, 2009

"I don't think like that anymore."

Alex Wilson is smiling again after winning excellence award

Alex Wilson is smiling again after winning excellence award

by Iain Lundy, from the Evening Times Online

TWO years ago Alex Wilson had it made. He had a successful job, owned houses in England and France and was a partner in a luxury apartment business in Brazil.

The engineer drove plush cars, swam in his private pool, played tennis on his own court and had plans to build a golf course. But in January 2007 his world collapsed.

Cancer - which he had suffered 10 years previously - returned and he lost his job, his business partners deserted him and his marriage broke down.

Alex, 54, from Motherwell, was forced to return to Lanarkshire penniless and with no home to go to.

He contemplated suicide but, after almost two years in the doldrums, he is again on the straight and narrow and says his is a classic tale of "riches to rags to riches".

He has managed to turn his life back around thanks to the support he received in his home town, particularly a scheme run by Motherwell College, which has helped him relaunch a new career.

After completing his engineering apprenticeship in the old Lanarkshire steelworks, Alex went to work in England for British Aerospace and began to enjoy the good life.

He said: "I had worked hard and along with some friends I bought some holiday apartments in Brazil. They were full all year round and the income was brilliant."

But things started to go wrong when his stomach cancer came back and he was treated in France.

"My partners obviously thought I was not going to last. They got together and effectively wrote me out of the business. I had cashed in 85% of my pension to put it into the business, so all that was gone.

Alex then stopped working and his third marriage ended in divorce.

He said: "I had a couple of T-shirts, two pairs of jeans and a jacket to my name. There was only one thing I could do and that was go back to my home land.

"North Lanarkshire Council was brilliant. I arrived in the morning and by mid-afternoon it had set me up with a flat in Shotts and given me some money.

"I am not a Catholic but the local priest, Father Lamb, came round that night with three bags of shopping."

Through the JobCentre, Alex was put in touch with the "Support Employment" football project run by Motherwell College, Motherwell FC and Careers Scotland.

He has now been presented with Careers Scotland's Over-20 Excellence Award at a ceremony at Glasgow Science Centre.

He added: "A year ago I just wanted to die. I don't think like that any more. "

This summer Alex hopes to graduate from the college in Swedish massage and reflexology - and use his new skills to work again.



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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Steven Curtis Chapman get nomination for Beliefnet's Most Inspiring Person of the Year

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Nominations were announced yesterday for Beliefnet's 8th Annual Most Inspiring Person of the Year Award, and on the list is Christian music icon Steven Curtis Chapman.

The nomination is an annual recognition by Beliefnet readers and editors of noteworthy humanitarian actions that inspire and encourage us all to live better lives. The Most Inspiring Person of the Year Award is bestowed upon someone who has risen above expectations. He or she may have countered stereotypes and demonstrated courage, forgiveness, self-sacrifice or love under difficult and challenging circumstances.

Voting began yesterday; readers can vote once a day through December 5th.

Chapman and his family suffered a tragic loss this past May when their youngest adopted daughter, Maria, was accidentally run over in the family's driveway by their oldest son, Will.

In the midst of their obvious grief, the family responded with characteristic faith and grace, taking the opportunity to speak publicly about God, Christ and their faith on shows like "Larry King Live" and "Good Morning America" and in a feature story in People magazine.

The family encouraged concerned fans to make donations to Shaohannah's Hope, the organization the Chapman's found to give financial assistance to families wanting to adopt children. More than half a million dollars was donated to the organization.

Beliefnet nominated Chapman for "His courage in the face of personal loss balanced by a reliance on God serves as a model for millions of people around the world. Chapman is a tireless advocate for underprivileged children and Christian relief."

The other nominees include:

Greensburg, Kansas Superintendent of Schools Darin Headrick, who spearheaded efforts to get the school up and running immediately in the wake of a tornado that destroyed 95% of the town. "His environmentally-friendly 'Green' schools gave students and families hope and a reason to stay and grow with the new community they pledged to build."

Olympic medalist Dara Torres, who at age 41 took home three silver medals, for "her instinctive and selfless gesture to help a competitor that stopped the clock seconds before race."

Actress Christina Applegate, crusader for breast cancer awareness who, as a breast cancer survivor herself, "continues to inspire and motivate others to join the fight against this deadly disease."

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, the doctor who spent her life studying the human brain only to suffer a massive stroke herself. "As she watched her own brain deteriorate she reached a profound level of spirituality that eventually inspired her to change the course of her life and share new knowledge with the world."

Sudanese Dr. Halima Bashir, whose memoir relates her story of brutal punishment "for medically treating the injured and then declaiming the rape and torture of young girls who are being traumatized by government-backed rapists in Darfur. Her breathtaking life story and passionate commitment to speaking out against violence on behalf of those who cannot fight for themselves has inspired millions."

Master Sgt. William "Spanky" Gibsonm the 19-year-old Marine who returned to battle with aprosthetic leg after after doctors amputated his leg above the knee as a result of a combat injury. "Master Sgt. Gibson refused whole-heartedly to think of himself as disabled. 'Born to be a Marine,' Gibson retrained with gusto and returned to battle."

"Last Lecture" professor Randy Pausch, "who recently passed away after a brave journey through pancreatic cancer showed the importance of living each day well--even when facing death--and to never give up on your dreams."

Academy Award Winner and generous humanitarian, Paul Newman, whose "Hole in the Wall Gang Camps for seriously ill children give hundreds of thousands of kids an opportunity to laugh, play and enjoy the fresh air, green grass and sunshine."

The dozens of Nebraska and Iowa Boy Scouts who, while attending a weeklong leadership training session, "rallied into action without missing a beat when a devastating tornado ripped through their remote western Iowa campsite. Courageously, the boys overcame fear and panic to rescue their friends and community members and assist the injured."

For complete profiles and to cast your daily vote, visit Beliefnet.com. Remember, voting ends December 5. Beliefnet's Most Inspiring Person for 2008 will be announced on December 10th.






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