Wednesday, November 26, 2008

New book an inspirational journey

 

By John Meyer
The Denver Post

Near the end of her terrific new book about the New York City Marathon, author Liz Robbins describes with biting understatement a finish-line scene that captures the best of humanity and ridicules the worst of celebrity.

Actor Tom Cruise is waiting for his wife, actress Katie Holmes, who will finish her first marathon in 5 hours, 28 minutes, 58 seconds. Holmes crosses the finish line clad in a spaghetti-strapped tank top and sweatpants, and the crowd cheers.

But the cheers aren't for Holmes or her flaky husband, who is about to make his wife the only runner in the field of 39,265 to have a loved one bestow the finisher's medal. The cheers are for 55-year-old Bill Reilly, a victim of severe cerebral palsy who has just pushed his wheelchair backwards for 26.2 miles — for the 12th year in a row.

Robbins' book, "A Race Like No Other," (HarperCollins, $24.95) is filled with similarly poignant scenes and stories that beautifully capture the power of the marathon in general and the New York City Marathon in particular.

"People start for a reason," Robbins writes. "They finish with a revelation."

Full disclosure: Liz is a friend and sportswriting colleague who has written for The New York Times the past eight years, New York is my favorite marathon, and the race covers the marathon of 2007, in which I ran. I was predisposed to like her book.

But "A Race Like No Other," like the marathon it depicts, offers inspiration at every turn. If you're a runner, it will make you want to run a marathon. If you're a marathoner, it will make you want to run New York. If you love the New York City Marathon, you will treasure this book.

But you don't have to take my word for it. My training partner liked it so much she bought copies for two friends.

Organizing the story into 26 chapters, Robbins weaves vivid mile-by-mile descriptions of the route with memorable stories about people who are running it. Robbins went to South Africa to tell the fascinating story of Hendrick Ramaala, who finished third. She went to Latvia to profile Jelena Prokopcuka, who was third in the elite women's race.

But Robbins also tells the story of a cancer-survivor running his first marathon. We follow the saga of a recovering alcoholic and mother who began training for New York after serving 90 days in jail for her third DUI.

"Completing a marathon, training for a marathon, represents hope," Robbins said on a recent visit to Denver. "And that's why people can be inspired by this book. That's why I was inspired by it. It's the dedication, the perseverance, the craziness, the belief, the doubt and then the belief again. It's a story of reinvention and revitalization."

We also meet some great people along the marathon route, such as Frank Haye, the pastor of music and arts at Emmanuel Baptist church in Brooklyn. Dressed in black robes and colorful scarves on the church's front steps, the choir sings urban spirituals while the mass of marathoners flows by.

"As far as we see it," Haye says, "the whole Christian life is a marathon."

Robbins came up with the idea to do the book after a trip to Boulder just before the 2006 New York City Marathon, which produced a fairly controversial New York Times piece about the elites who train there. It got her thinking about those who have a passion for running, elite and ordinary. She'd long ago fallen in love with the New York City Marathon, so she took a leave of absence from the Times.

"I was looking for a book topic," Robbins said. "I didn't want to write about the NBA, having covered it for 10 years. I didn't want to write about tennis. I wanted to write something that was bigger, that really captured the whole scope of humanity. Nothing does that like the marathon."

She's right. Those of us who run marathons and get to write about marathoners are constantly humbled by the power of the marathon to inspire.

"Everyone keeps asking me, 'What's your next book?' " Robbins said. "How am I going to find something that is this meaningful to people, and so challenging, and so fun?"



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China's richest man, Huang Guangyu - a courteous billionaire

Gome Appliances Chairman Huang Guangyu

The Times reports that nice guys don't always finish last:

It was just after he had vaulted to the top of China’s rich list in 2005 that Huang Guangyu gave The Times an interview. The self-made billionaire’s career is a classic rags-to-riches tale, but unlike many of China’s nouveaux riches Mr Huang was unfailingly polite, at pains to be considerate and to make his guest feel comfortable.

He smokes, but throughout an interview lasting more than an hour the cigarettes on his neat desk lay untouched.

It was a display of unusual restraint in a country where officials and businessmen rarely bother to ask if their habit offends.

Even though his office, high in the Eagle Plaza skyscraper that he owns with his brother, is enormous and his desk a presidential crescent, he seemed genuinely uninterested in personal wealth.

Mr Huang lives with his wife and son in an ordinary apartment and said that he had no plans to use his riches to pay the fines associated with having a second child in China. He appeared embarrassed when asked what kind of car he owns - a Mercedes - and he only has one, he added quickly.

He works 13-hour days and holidays bore him - although he confessed that when travelling overseas he liked to browse in local electronics retailers to see how others run their stores. During a visit to London he enjoyed walking and looking at the old buildings but was still eager to get home and back to work.

The most surprising moment in our interview came at the end. He accompanied me to the lift and waited, bidding goodbye only as the doors closed. His courtesy gave me “face”, indicating that despite being China’s richest man, he still regarded me as his equal in this deeply hierarchical society.








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Son's diabetes led couple into changing lives forever

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The Sentinel reports on a couple providing useful service for over 25 years.

Stuart and Glenys Grime, of Oldhill Close, Talke Pits, were inspired to help raise money and awareness about diabetes after their son Robert was diagnosed with the condition as a teenager. Stuart, a 74-year-old retired advertising representative and Glenys, a 73-year-old retired nursery nurse, also have two grandchildren and have been volunteering for Diabetes UK for more than 25 years.

Colette Warbrook reports:

When and where did you first meet?

Stuart says: We met at the Trentham Gardens ballroom in 1959 when I was about 25. I asked Glenys for a dance, and as we danced we got chatting and found we got on well together. There was a mutual attraction and we started going to Trentham together at weekends, so things developed slowly from there.

Glenys says: We met while ballroom dancing at Trentham Gardens and our relationship gradually developed from there. We got on very, very well together, and we used to love dancing.

What was your first impression of each other?

Stuart says: I'm not one of those romantics. We just took a great liking to one another and realised we were very, very well suited.

Glenys says: I just knew Stuart was going to be very steady and caring, and that is how he has always been. He has been very caring to both me and Robert, and also the grandchildren.

How was your wedding day?

Stuart says: We just drifted into getting married, so there was no formal proposal. Our wedding was in October, 1960, at Chesterton Parish Church. The sun shone and it was a nice day all round.

Glenys says: Our wedding day was very nice. It was a lovely, sunny day.

How did you find out Robert had diabetes?

Stuart says: It was in 1982 and we were in Windsor at the time staying in a caravan. Robert was aged about 14 or 15, and he kept running to the toilet. He was thirsty and was losing weight too, so we knew there was something wrong. We broke off our holiday, came home and went to the doctor. It was found that Robert had diabetes and he was taken to hospital straight away.

Glenys says: It was during the October half-term, and Robert looked very gaunt. We became very concerned, so we decided to pack up and come straight home. The next morning we went to the doctor and a sample was taken and he was then admitted to hospital immediately.

How did you cope with the news?

Stuart says: It was very worrying. Robert was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, which means his body is unable to produce insulin, so he has to inject himself with it. We didn't know anything about diabetes at the time, and we were taught how to inject Robert. However, he has always injected himself, right from day one.

Glenys says: Back then we thought diabetes was something old people had, and we'd never come into contact with anyone who actually had it, so we were rather frightened.

How did it change family life?

Stuart says: Some foods were banned, some could be eaten in moderation and others were perfectly OK. We used to have to measure out portions, which you don't have to do today. Sweets were out, so to this day we don't have a dessert after a main meal, which means Robert doesn't feel left out.

Glenys says: We carried on as usual, but we changed our diet. Back then we had to weigh things like apples and bread, but once we knew all these things, we just got on with it.

Why did you start volunteering for Diabetes UK?

Stuart says: Glenys knew someone who told us about the Newcastle branch of what was then the British Diabetic Association. We went to our first meeting a few months after Robert was diagnosed and we learned an awful lot through that. Later we were invited on to the committee and I was chairman for 14 years. The group is now known as Diabetes UK North Staffs Voluntary Group, and it has raised hundreds of thousands of pounds for things like equipment for the diabetes unit at The University Hospital Of North Staffordshire.

Glenys says: Someone told us about the meetings in Newcastle and we went to our first one in February 1983. We found the charity very, very helpful, and we've been involved ever since. There are so many dedicated people in our group who all work very hard, but we're looking for some younger people to get involved, because we're all getting older.

How is Robert now?

Stuart says: Robert is 41 now and he is fine. He has to inject himself four times a day, but he's been a model diabetic. He hasn't done anything silly and has always kept to the regime. People can still lead relatively normal lives, but there are restrictions.

Glenys says: He is a wonderful son, and he holds down a very good job as a quantity surveyor. We've been very fortunate with how he has looked after himself.

A Christmas Fair will take place at Bradwell Lodge, Porthill, at 2pm on Saturday, November 29, to raise money for Diabetes UK North Staffs Voluntary Group. To find out more about the group, contact the secretary, David Scott, on 01782 861690



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Those in need helping others with donations to Food Bank of Eastern Michigan; Students in Flint schools among those giving back

FLINT, Michigan -- Potter Elementary students are paying it forward to help fight hunger.

The need for food assistance is up more than ever among families at the northeast-side school, but Principal Anthony Sitko says his students are also setting a different, more inspirational record.

Two local churches recently gave Thanksgiving food baskets to the families of 20 Potter students -- and the elementary school responded by collecting a couple hundred food items to be donated to the Food Bank of Eastern Michigan, he said.

The drive, organized by the school's Youth Advisory Council, is an example of a subtle shift the food bank has seen in community service. In these poor economic conditions, kids seem to be understanding at a younger age the concept of helping the less fortunate, especially when they see it first-hand.

Sixth-grader Marissa Ebert, who helped organize the food drive, said her family probably needs some help from time to time.  "I wanted to be able to help somebody else," said Marissa, who brought in cans of peas and corn. "I think we helped a lot of people."

Flint Journal extras

Many Flint schools are giving back this holiday season. Here are some examples of their generosity:

• Bryant Elementary: Holding a canned food drive to go toward Thanksgiving food baskets.

• Doyle-Ryder Elementary: Giving away 10 Thanksgiving food baskets.

• Freeman Elementary: Collecting money and canned food for holiday food basket.

• Southwestern Academy: Sponsoring baskets for the needy; Holding a classroom "Adopt-A-Family" project.

Source: Flint School District

Sitko said he often notices that the students who are in need of assistance are seeing that others also need help.
"The demand is up, but the generous giving was also up," he said. "These are tough times and students want to provide support for others who need it."
The food bank recently kicked off its annual month-long fundraising campaign, Face of Hunger. It's goal is to raise $720,000, but food drives like the one at Potter also help the food bank's central mission.

"It shows the real philanthropic nature of our community," said William Kerr, food bank president. "It really is a wonderful example of generosity."

When people think about hunger, they often think of the homeless, Kerr said, but that's usually not the case with many food bank clients.

Many supporters of the food bank have at one point or another needed to use its services, he said. It's evidence that those who need help often feel the need to give back.

"We're not so much a community of haves and have-nots -- we're a community of equals," Kerr said. "Some of us have more than others at certain times and give back."



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Monday, November 24, 2008

Rags To Riches Businessman Shares Success Story

Bill McCauley and his wife are the brains behind

NASHVILLE, Tenn.- A once broke builder, is now a Franklin business owner posting a profit, supervising happy employees, paying his workers like nobody else in the state, and even giving to charity.

Bill McCauley's Williamson County warehouse is about as massive as his generosity, but his super successful "Logo Chair Company."

Their company offers up to 200 college emblems from divisions one and two. McCauley said they started from meager beginnings.

"Oh yeah, we've been broke a couple times in our life. We actually were quite poor when we got started. Actually used to live in government housing when I had two kids, so," said McCauley.

McCauley and his wife are the brains behind "Logo," one of the country's top five suppliers of collegiate "non-apparel" products. It's only a warehouse, but Saturday Logo opened its doors to customers who, even in the worst of times, are ready to "sit the bench."

"We got a couple tailgate games for the Vanderbilt and Alabama games.. uh, for my son in laws. I got my son-in-law a Detroit Tiger tent for over his head. I mean, he's going to be thrilled," said Peggy Love, Columbia Resident and Logo Warehouse Shopper.

Logo employees say it feels like family there.  "It's only like a handful of us here, so.. we all know each other. We all hang out with each other outside of work. So, that's the best thing about it," said Tovarus Williams, Logo Warehouse Employee.

The owner of "LOGO" says he'll donate some money he made Saturday and even some left over merchandise to charity.



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Paralyzed School Shooting Survivor Writes Her Inspirational Story

PADUCAH, Ky., Nov 24, 2008 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ -- Dec. 1 will mark the 11th anniversary of the Heath High School shooting in Paducah, Ky., one of the nation's first mass school shootings. Just as it did in 1997, that date will fall this year on the Monday after Thanksgiving.

Eight students in a prayer circle that morning were shot by 14-year-old freshman Michael Carneal. Three were killed. Five were injured. Missy Jenkins, a 15-year-old sophomore at the time, was paralyzed from the chest down.

Jenkins, now 26, is a school counselor, public speaker, community volunteer, wife, mother and author. Her highly touted book, "I Choose to be Happy: A School Shooting Survivor's Triumph Over Tragedy," has been endorsed by Diane Sawyer of ABC News, Robin Meade at CNN Headline News and Sarah Brady with the Brady Center to Prevent Gun Violence.

"Missy breaks your heart, puts it back together again, and makes you a believer -- in forgiveness, faith, and how the strength of one girl can change the world," said Sawyer.

"Through Missy's narrative, you'll learn how this young woman moved from being part of a headline to being an inspiration," said Meade.

Brady wrote the foreword. "From the day she was shot to the day she met face to face with her shooter a decade later, Missy will take you on her incredible journey of sorrow, pain, joy and triumph," Brady said. "There's a lesson in here for everyone, young and old."

Just released by LangMarc Publishing, "I Choose to be Happy" explores the emotional details of Jenkins' life, including her perspective of the shooting, grueling physical and mental rehabilitation, daily struggles and triumphs of being a paraplegic, work today as a day treatment center counselor for troubled teens, marriage and the birth of her son in 2007.

It also includes a verbatim account of Carneal's interrogation just two hours after the shooting, excerpts from letters Carneal wrote to Jenkins from prison, details of her face-to-face meeting with him last year at the Kentucky State Reformatory and information about his appeal, which is currently under review by the Kentucky Supreme Court.

"I Choose to be Happy" is already being used in middle and high schools to teach lessons in empathy, love, determination, responsibility, kindness, courage, faith, forgiveness, the dangers of bullying and the importance of making good choices.

"I read it to my class and their jaws were dropped the entire time. You could have heard a pin drop," said Rebecca English, teacher at Calloway County (Ky.) Middle School. "Missy has impacted so many lives over the years, and she can impact so many more with this book. Everyone can benefit from it. I know my students and I have."

To interview Missy Jenkins or for more information on "I Choose to be Happy," email jenkinsbook@gmail.com, call William Croyle at 859-620-6916 or visit http://www.missyjenkins.com.

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William Croyle at jenkinsbook@gmail.com or 859-620-6916
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Inspirational Bristol businessman helps teenagers towards a bright future

Capture Bristol businessman Muhammad Ali is discovering the brightest entrepreneurs of tomorrow in the toughest teenagers of today.

Muhammad, who lives in Whitehall, has been running a mentoring scheme at the City Academy in St George for the past 10 years.

The supplementary school began with five tutors and 50 teenagers and now more than 120 professionals give their time to mentor 600 young people attending the Sunday classes.

Mostly Muslim boys from the inner city, they are often doing poorly at school and need help preventing them getting mixed up in crime.

Thanks to the mentoring many have gone on to university and successful careers.

Muhammad, 36, said most do not have appropriate role models and have difficult personal lives.

He said: "We once asked a group of them to put up their hands in class if they wanted to grow up to be like their dads. Not one of them did."

Muhammad is most proud of a 23-year-old who is now studying accounting and business finance at university.

"I helped him believe that he could do anything. I am so proud of what he has accomplished."

Suzanne Bond, executive director of people and skills at the South West Regional Development Agency said: "Muhammad's work is truly inspirational to us all.

"Enterprise isn't just about making your mark in the business community it is also about how you can make a difference to people's lives by using your skills and your passion with your experience and your time.

"Enterprise Week is dedicated to celebrating enterprise in all its forms and showing what a life-changing impact it can make to others."

Enterprise Week, which ended yesterday, was a national celebration of enterprise with thousands of events and activities across the UK.





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